Marcel’s Madeleine (Excerpts from “How Marcel Proust Can Change Your Life”)

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How to Open Your Eyes

The happiness that may emerge from taking a second look is central to Proust’s therapeutic conception. It reveals the extent to which our dissatisfaction may be the result of failing to look properly at our lives rather than the result of anything inherently deficient about them.

Here’s the famous madeleine passage:

No sooner had the warm liquid mixed with the crumbs touched my palate than a shiver ran through me and I stopped, intent upon the extraordinary thing that was happening to me. An exquisite pleasure had invaded my senses, something isolated, detached, with no suggestion of its origin. And at once the vicissitudes of life had become indifferent to me, its disaster innocuous, its brevity illusory…. I had ceased now to feel mediocre, contingent, mortal.

By a quirk of physiology, a cake that has not crossed his lips since childhood, and therefore remains uncorrupted by later associations, has the ability to carry him back to Combray days, introducing him to a stream of rich and intimate memories… it isn’t his life that has been mediocre so much as the image of it he possessed in memory. Proust noted elsewhere:

The reason why life may be judged to be trivial although at certain moments it seems to us so beautiful is that we form our judgment, ordinarily, not on the evidence of life itself but of those quite different images, which preserve nothing of life – and therefore we judge it disparagingly.

Proust made the distinction between voluntary and involuntary memory:

Voluntary memory, the memory of the intellect and the eyes, [gives] us only imprecise facsimiles of the past which no more resemble it than pictures by bad painters resemble the spring…. So we don’t believe that life is beautiful because we don’t recall it, but if we get a whiff of a long-forgotten smell we are suddenly intoxicated, and similarly we think we no longer love the dead, because we don’t remember them, but if by chance we come across an old glove we burst into tears.

What separates involuntary and voluntary memory is both infinitesimal and critical. Before he tasted the legendary tea and madeleine, the narrator of “À la recherche du temps perdu” was not devoid of memories of his childhood. Yet the memories were lifeless because they lacked the equivalent of the touches of the good painter, the awareness of light falling across Combray’s central square in mid-afternoon, the smell of Aunt Leonie’s bedroom… – details that suggest it would be more accurate to describe the madeleine as provoking a moment of appreciation rather than recollection.

Why don’t we appreciate things more fully? The problem goes beyond inattention or laziness. It may also stem from insufficient exposure to images of beauty, which are close enough to our own world in order to guide and inspire us. Because of the speed of technological and architectural change, the world is liable to be full of scenes and objects that have not yet been transformed into appropriate images and may therefore make us nostalgic for another, now lost world, which is not inherently more beautiful but might seem so because it has already been widely depicted by those who open our eyes…[But] beauty is to something to be found, rather than passively encountered, that it requires us to pick up on certain details, to identify the whiteness of a cotton dress, the reflection of the sea on the hull of a yacht, or the contrast between the color of a jockey’s coat and his face.

The images with which we are surrounded are often not just out-of-date, they can also be unhelpfully ostentatious. When Proust urges us to evaluate the world properly, he repeatedly reminds us of the value of modest scenes:

True beauty is indeed the one thing incapable of answering the expectations of an over-romantic imagination…. What disappointments has it not caused since it first appeared to the mass of mankind! A woman goes to see a masterpiece of art as excitedly as if she was finishing a serial-story, or consulting a fortune teller or waiting for her lover. But she sees a man sitting meditating by the window, in a room where there is not much light. She waits for a moment in case something more may appear, as in a boulevard transparency. And though hypocrisy may seal her lips, she says in her heart of hearts: “What, is that all there is to Rembrandt’s Philosopher?”

However touching, this does sit somewhat uneasily with evidence that Proust himself had rather a taste for ostentation… the accusations run something like this: he had elaborate names in his address book, he went to the Ritz all the time, he went to many parties. Proust was ready with an honest answer. It was true, he had been attracted to the ostentatious life…however…Proust was disappointed by glamor when he found it.

[But] rather than ceasing to discriminate between people altogether, we may simply have to become better at doing so. The image of a refined aristocracy is not false, it is merely dangerously uncomplicated. There are of course superior people at large in the world, but it is optimistic to assume that they could be so conveniently located on the basis of their surname.

85 Responses to “Marcel’s Madeleine (Excerpts from “How Marcel Proust Can Change Your Life”)”

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  2. musiqdragonfly June 10, 2012 at 11:58 am #

    I love making madeleines, they taste good and the shape of them is pleasing. However the novel of Marcel Proust is not quite as easy to digest, I started a few times, but I always stop after a dozen pages, probably I have to wait for some years to restart again. Thanks for posting …

    • wubr2000 June 10, 2012 at 2:17 pm #

      I like madeleines too – although I love macaroons even more!
      Is it difficult to make madeleines?

      I tried to read it too but couldn’t get through the first chapter – remember it was about how he was a like baby and how fluffly the pillow was or something. Quite boring.

      • musiqdragonfly June 10, 2012 at 2:50 pm #

        not difficult, you have to invest a little on buying a madeleines mould. I follow this video, hope you’ll like it.

        I am afraid of the colour on macaroons but I think it looks delicious.

        • wubr2000 June 10, 2012 at 3:09 pm #

          Looks pretty easy. Kind of like making waffles I guess.
          I think what makes or breaks a macaroon is the fillings.
          They have a good macaroon bakery here in Hong Kong called LGB:

          • musiqdragonfly June 10, 2012 at 7:19 pm #

            appealing, a box please (just joking).

            • wubr2000 June 12, 2012 at 6:35 pm #

              I would send you a box if you weren’t so far away. Are you from Belgium? May I ask how you stumbled onto this blog?

              • musiqdragonfly June 12, 2012 at 6:50 pm #

                yes I live in Belgium, I have been reading the story of David and Absalom, and were perplexed, so try to have other insights, so I “google” and your blog was “googled”.

                • wubr2000 June 13, 2012 at 3:50 pm #

                  So how come your English is so good? Are you from Belgium originally?

                  • musiqdragonfly June 13, 2012 at 3:59 pm #

                    mmm, no answer for this difficult question, it is a mystery, a secret; nevertheless my English is far from good, but still grateful for your flattery.

                    • wubr2000 June 13, 2012 at 4:25 pm #

                      I hope it didn’t come across as flattery. I had no intention to flatter you!

                    • musiqdragonfly June 13, 2012 at 4:30 pm #

                      “flattery” noted, I like reading, my English is from my reading, that’s all. Still a big thank.

                    • wubr2000 June 13, 2012 at 4:43 pm #


  3. musiqdragonfly September 26, 2012 at 5:06 pm #

    I read a bit of Proust today, I thought of what you have posted, sorry for my intrusion into your blog again. Going through those comments I suddenly realize that, perhaps you owe me a box of macaroons… Hope you are doing ok.

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  5. Erin Dalton July 2, 2013 at 12:09 pm #

    I just read through this passage yesterday. Such brilliant concepts to think through when you’re bored or having a glummier day. Thank you for posting!

    • wubr2000 July 2, 2013 at 2:37 pm #

      I hope you were bored rather than having a glummier day! :)

      • Erin Dalton July 2, 2013 at 6:10 pm #

        Actually, I was in an airport, so yes :) I suppose the good that can come from a glummier day would be the intensified efforts made to find a better perspective. Eh?

        • wubr2000 July 2, 2013 at 10:39 pm #

          Going to an airport now. Although I don’t feel glummy.

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